Trees can have profound meaning in our lives. I know that the Monkey Puzzle in my garden is like an old friend as he gazes in the study window. There was also a tree on my grandmother’s farm in Co. Meath which served as the gathering point for us and our cousins. It could be anything from a hideout, boat, galloping horse, kitchen, chat-room or ‘base’ in all those chasing games …..
The other evening at the WORDS Writers Group event, one of the participants told us of how a willow tree that she had planted in her garden with her father many years back to mark a significant milestone had been blown down in the recent storms. It wasn’t just any tree, it was one that had been nurtured, loved and deeply appreciated.
She then produced a huge bag with cuttings from the Willow and asked us all to place them in water and hope that they would spring roots. It was one of those moments when the sharing of grief was palpable and it felt as if the collective heart in the room was baring itself to reveal an inner layer that’s seldom displayed among relative strangers.
I suspect that everyone who received a precious cutting thought long and hard about where they would put it and how they could give it the best chance of re-rooting. I put mine in a Waterford Glass vase that was the most precious vase belonging to my late mother who absolutely adored trees. For now, it’s getting some welcoming cuddles from ivy and dried Honesty and Pampas!
By sheer coincidence, I came across a poem this morning, by the great Waterford poet, Sean Dunne, which is driving my hopes even further that the broken willow will re-root between us all:
Sheltered in the cool nursery
of the young century, I grew
in chequered silence. The voices
of men ignored me and I heard
instead the wind’s word.
I liked burdocks and nettles
but loved the silver willow most of all.
It was my friend for years.
Its weeping branches fanned
my insomnia with dreams.
To my surprise I outlived it.
Now just the stump’s left.
Other willows with strange voices
murmur beneath our skies
as I sit in silence, as though
a brother had died.
(from Collected Sean Dunne, Gallery Books, 2005)
18 thoughts on “Sharing the Broken Willow”
There are no coincidences…. 😉
Very few anyway! Thanks.
I hit reply too fast! This is my favourite version…
That’s just amazing. Never heard it before. Will have it on replay for some time!
Happy you enjoyed it…such a beautiful song and though I love Billie Holiday, this one is still my fave!
It’s just great! Must listen to Billie’s version as well. I’m one of her mega fans.
The willow is such a lovely, delicate, magical tree, straight out of fairy tales and into our hearts. I fervently hope your cutting thrives and that you will have an addition to your garden.
Thanks so much! Given the situation, I think if it re-roots, the original owner will have first call on it but I have a feeling that she will get one to re-root before I do!
What a lovely thought. Even if just one of those cuttings ‘takes’ then something belonging to father and daughter lives on. There’s a theme for a story I’ve just scribbled down!
Roy please share that story when it’s done. I’ll swap for a branch.
Roy, yes the father-daughter connection tugged very hard at me too.
Beautiful post,beautiful photo, beautiful vase, beautiful idea, I wish my nam
e sake well. Xxx
Willow, thanks for your good wishes and what a lovely name you have.
Thank you so much! 😉
You’re very welcome!
Yes, beautiful everything! What a lovely way to deal with a loss. Hope you let us know when your twig sends out roots. ~ Linne
Hello Linne, great to hear from you. I’ll certainly keep you posted about the fortunes of the cutting.