I just saw an ad for bright coloured summer sandals and they cast me back to a sunny late April day in Dublin when I was eighteen coming up to the end of my first year at university.
I was walking along with a friend of my brother who was about 4 years older than me.
Out of the blue, he said: I love this time of year and the way all the women are dressed in vibrant, bright colours and wearing summery dresses and sandals.’
I looked around and saw what he meant and had a dawning realisation that I definitely didn’t fit into that category as I was, and still am, a tomboy who doesn’t even own a summer dress or skirt or a pair of brightly coloured sandals.
His comment left me speechless but then I had always realised that I was the ‘kid sister’ to him and would never be anything else. He probably would have passed out if he’d seen me in anything but my denim jeans, runners or clogs and sloppy sports t-shirts and sweatshirts.
Absolutely nothing has changed in the intervening years, except for the clogs. And, I still looked at the sandals in the ad and knew that however much I liked the colours, I wouldn’t be wearing them as they just aren’t me.
I have often wondered since that day if life would have been very different if I had turned into what I considered to be a girly-girl. I guess it’s not to late to experiment now but ….