You’re Asking the Wrong Question

This is an absolute MUST READ post for people of all ages about ageing.

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Jan - Purple 2

I’m sorry. Let me say this in the kindest possible way. Asking me what I will do to stay ‘young at heart’ as I get older is ageist.

Why would anyone assume that it is better to be young at heart than old at heart unless being old at heart implied a lot of unpleasant, undesirable things. Of course, that wasn’t the intention. Assuming that young is better is a deep cultural belief, one that is, unfortunately, absorbed by many people as they age, making them mourn their younger selves rather than enjoying the age they are.

I was already young at heart when I was young. Then I was middle-aged at heart and now, I think, I’m probably old at heart. And I’m here to tell you, all of you 40-somethings filled with dread about the future, it’s more interesting over here on the other side than you might…

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Author: socialbridge

I am a sociologist and writer from Ireland. I have worked as a social researcher for 30 years and have had a lifelong passion for writing. My main research interests relate to health care and I love to write both non-fiction and poetry.

2 thoughts on “You’re Asking the Wrong Question”

  1. You are correct, Jean. That was definitely a must read! Today’s society does not let people just be! They must be younger, slimmer, richer, etc… I look at Helen Mirren and marvel and how fabulous she looks (and all the others who’ve chosen to NOT go down that plastic surgery path…)

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